Author name: Graeme Brown

Graeme Brown is a writer and editor based in Australia. He spent his career in education, first as a high-school mathematics teacher and then as an assistant principal, before moving into editing and later co-founding Global English Editing. He is married to Jeanette Brown. On this site he writes about retirement and the years after work, with a teacher's instinct for what helps ideas land and an editor's eye for clear, honest writing.

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Finding a friend who really gets you can take time in later life, but research suggests where to look, and why letting people see the real you is part of how you find them

Friends who really get you matter more with age. Research on friendship, feeling understood and being yourself suggests where to find them and how to let them in.

Finding a friend who really gets you can take time in later life, but research suggests where to look, and why letting people see the real you is part of how you find them Read More »

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From Skippy to The Brady Bunch, the TV theme songs many boomers can still sing along to, and why they’ve stuck for more than half a century

From Skippy to The Brady Bunch, the TV theme songs many boomers can still sing along to, the stories behind them, and what research suggests about why they’ve stuck for so long.

From Skippy to The Brady Bunch, the TV theme songs many boomers can still sing along to, and why they’ve stuck for more than half a century Read More »

Two older men sit at a small café table with coffee, one talking with his hands while the other listens.

Asking more questions and talking a little less about ourselves can make conversations more meaningful, and research suggests people may like us more for it

We all talk about ourselves more than we realise. Research suggests that asking one more question, and resisting the urge to shift the spotlight, can make conversations more meaningful.

Asking more questions and talking a little less about ourselves can make conversations more meaningful, and research suggests people may like us more for it Read More »

An older couple sit at a table with a laptop and open planners, looking at the screen together.

Your first year of retirement can shape the years that follow, and a few steps taken early, from finding a purpose to sorting the paperwork, can make the rest easier

The first year of retirement is a good time to set a few things in place. Here’s what research and official guidance suggest, from finding a purpose to sorting the paperwork.

Your first year of retirement can shape the years that follow, and a few steps taken early, from finding a purpose to sorting the paperwork, can make the rest easier Read More »

A grey-haired woman holding a cup of coffee listens to an older man across a table in a leafy garden.

A heart-to-heart can feel daunting, but research suggests the deeper conversations we put off tend to go better than we expect, and matter more than we think

Heart-to-hearts are the conversations we tend to put off. Research suggests they go better than we expect, and the ones worth having in later life may matter more than we think.

A heart-to-heart can feel daunting, but research suggests the deeper conversations we put off tend to go better than we expect, and matter more than we think Read More »

An older woman and a younger woman sit side by side at a table with cups of tea, talking.

Our children never stop needing to be heard, and research suggests that listening well to grown children may matter more than the advice we’re tempted to give

Advice comes from love, but research on parents and grown children suggests what they often want most is to be heard. Here’s what careful listening does, and what it can look like.

Our children never stop needing to be heard, and research suggests that listening well to grown children may matter more than the advice we’re tempted to give Read More »

An older man with a grey beard stands at a window, looking out.

When someone you love starts pulling away as they age, it isn’t always a worry, but some changes are worth noticing, and reaching out may mean more than you think

Not every shrinking social circle is a worry. Here’s how to tell healthy change from withdrawal worth noticing, and why reaching out is likely to be more welcome than you think.

When someone you love starts pulling away as they age, it isn’t always a worry, but some changes are worth noticing, and reaching out may mean more than you think Read More »

An older man in a coat and cap walks along a tree-lined park path with a walking stick.

Doing your best in later life doesn’t mean doing what you once did, and research suggests being kind to yourself about the difference matters more than you might think

Your best at 75 won’t look like your best at 45, and that’s the point. A Stoic philosopher, a famous pianist and research on ageing suggest how to do your best, whatever the day brings.

Doing your best in later life doesn’t mean doing what you once did, and research suggests being kind to yourself about the difference matters more than you might think Read More »

A grey-haired woman sits on a bed listening to a young girl in a pink dress.

Grandparents often wonder what children will remember—studies of parents suggest the conversation matters more than any perfect phrase

Research on how adults talk with young children suggests which kinds of grandparent phrases are most likely to last, from ‘Do you remember when…?’ to ‘You worked hard on that’.

Grandparents often wonder what children will remember—studies of parents suggest the conversation matters more than any perfect phrase Read More »